The Surprising Response
Earlier this year I set out on a journey to connect with random people and share their story. I didn't really have a plan. I still don't really have a plan. What I do have is a vision and some pretty cool audio and video equipment. While it's great to have vision and equipment, without people who are willing to put themselves out there, the project is a bust. I anticipated some challenges with getting folks to open up to me and the recorder. I mean think about it, they don't know me. I'm a complete stranger talking to them about this project..blah blah blah. What I'm most surprised about is exactly HOW WILLING people are to open up to a stranger, and the recorder. With little prompting or structure, I've just asked for them to tell me what they do, and asked them to talk about some of the challenges they face and how they deal with those challenges. That's it. I let them go.
I'm guessing that folks want to be heard. They care about being heard. There is a need to be heard.
More than all of that, though, is that in the short month of working on this project, I have already learned so much. First, you can't keep using cocktail napkins as business cards. Second, sometimes the story you go after isn't the best story in the room. Patience and open-mindedness are paramount. Finally, resiliency and determination are everywhere, you just have to see them.
I don't know if it's because I am working on my own project, but when I hear, "You can't fail at something you love," it makes me want to just keep going. I love that quote, and I give credit to Eric Lough for that. It could become my new mantra because it just doesn't matter if the project takes off or not- there is no success or failure in it- because you are doing it- you know, the thing you are most passionate about. So at the end of the day it's a win-win.
1/31/2016 10:41:10 am
Keep up the good work! This site is fabulous. You are capturing the human spirit in a thoughtful, meaningful, and purposeful way and that makes a difference in the way we interact with our friends, family, strangers and most importantly ourselves.
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